Did you know that some terms you heard around like ladyboys, transsexual or shemale may have different meanings? Of course, they are all used to referring transsexual women, but someone could get you wrong and even offended if you make a casual use. It depends on what kind of transsexual lady you are talking to; the reactions and interpretations could be quite different.
A bit messy right? Let’s make clear the differences between these terms. It will become useful to you being aware of these details, believe me.
Are you new to transgender dating for example? I bet most of you are! Even tough you may have had some experiences, what’s following might be a cultural enrichment that you shouldn’t miss!
Note: for the ladies, remember this is an important matter also for you when you are looking the right man for you as well! )
Let’s now get a short preview, a what’s the best transsexual partner for you, starting with a question.
What transsexual partner are you looking for ?
When it comes to dating transgender women, there are always miss understanding related to sexual roles, sexual preferences which play a crucial factor. And none the less, you need to understand the meaning of some terms related to LGBT lingo, which is also commonly used in the transsexual world.
There are 3 significant differences about what type of girl is right for you
- Transsexual Pre-op ( pre-operative )
- Transsexual Post-op ( after operation )
- Transsexual Non-op. ( no plans to undergo surgery operation)
These three terms are all about one specific thing: sex change. It is related to her most intimate part, her genitalia. If she is pre-op, this means she still has her male genitalia, or not having plans to remove them if she is a non-op transsexual. We will be covering this topic pretty soon with more detailed explanations ( if you are interested in joining our newsletter to don’t miss it! ).
P.S. If you want additional details right away, click this link transgender pre-op, non-op post-op & feminisation
Men who like trans women and versatile intimacy
In case you like to have a versatile intimate relationship, you shall avoid transgender women who are pre-op or post-op. Note that some pre-op transgender does not always end to undergo sex change surgery, which makes them fall into the group of non-op transsexual, that wants to keep their natural genitalia.
There are also other things that you shall be aware if wish to make sure you are going to date the right transgender woman for you. T-girls can be also categorised in different type depending on: ethnicity, then geographical position, and what kind of lifestyle they living. Let’s see now what is this about.
Ladyboys, transsexual, transex, shemale, what’s the difference?
Have you noticed on shemale porn website there are categories with these terms / names? Many associate these terms in most cases with what they see on internet porn sites, thinking that these words are all terms related to pornography and prostitution. That’s wrong! ( We will get into details about sex industry and transsexuals next articles )
The reality is that not all transsexual women are into sex business. It is just a stereotype that Internet is spreading due to the growing sex industry. There are so many transgender women out there who live a decent, respectable life out of sex work.
This is the first thing you always have to bear in mind! Forget what you see on shemale porn websites! When you date a trans woman out of red light districts, you will discover right away how different the reality is!
So, now you have to separate the contest from what is porn, and what is dating ( same goes for on-line dating ). When you are looking for a date with a transsexual woman, remember there are different types of girls as now following.
FIRST thing, we are speaking about transsexual male to female ( MTF, not FTM, different case ). Let’s now make some example of different girls to make clear some points:
- Ladyboy is employed to refer at Asian transsexual
- Transex it is intended to referring to westerner transgender / transwomen
- Shemale shall be never used into dating context because it’s strongly related to porn and prostitution. Tough, it could be tolerated if you are looking for a one night stand with an escort prostitute, who usually doesn’t mind about these details.
Now that you understood a little the meaning of these terms, you will also understand why on our website there are these three different page categories.
Date an Asian transsexual, ladyboy
Transsexuals in Asia are best known as ladyboys. The international name they are also called, which has been introduced in Thailand between 60-70 years to have better communication with westerner tourists.
When it comes to dating scene with an Asian ts, you can use the term ladyboy without so many worries. Asian t.girls are quite familiar with it and is pretty tolerated, but bear in mind that some of them may still find it a bit offensive.
If you want to avoid any risk, only employ transgender woman or local names as Kathoey or Katoi in Thailand.
Click this link if you like to date transsexual from Asia, ladyboys for romance and LTR ( long term relationship )
Date a westerner transsexual, transex
Transex or trans is the contraction of transsexual. These are terms commonly used to address westerner transsexual women from Europe or America. As you can notice, these terms are quite similar and can be exchanged without offending anyone.
So, when you are talking about transsexual women, if you want to point out your preference for a westerner, or when you are looking for a date with a westerner t-girl, is correct to employ: Transex. Instead, if you like Asian TS: Ladyboy
Then, click this link if you like to date transex from USA EUROPE looking for romance and LTR
Let’s see the next and last!
Date a Shemale hooker or tranny
The terms shemale and tranny comes both from America and are mostly associated with USA shemale, and Brazilian trannies. Have been widely used to categorize and advertise American transsexual porn movies by a long time.
With the boom of the porn industry in the 80s, and still nowadays, the shemale term became popular even in Asia, Europe and rest of the world. In fact, you may find t-girls who address oneself as shemale, but the majority of transsexual women will tell you they don’t like to be called such. It’s quite offensive for t-girls who are not sex workers.
Obviously, because it is deeply associated with porn, prostitution, cam sex, which is quite vulgar and offensive. Then you have been warned now!
Dating tip: Why All those terms which add the label of male, as lady-boy or she-male, are sometimes not so tolerated to transgender girls? Aside the sex industry, another reason is due to usually tgirls only wish to be addressed as women! And not a hermaphrodite or hybrid.
The freedom to be with who you like
With all being said, the term shemale somehow represents also an ideal of liberty. The freedom of being with a partner that could be a sex worker, or just that doesn’t want anything more than some fun and complicity with a partner that share the same desire.
That’s why we have associated the shemale dating review page on our blog with web sites for casual encounters and hookups. Right for those people who just want to find a partner for the sake of fun. But also to separate those dating sites for love relationship, right for those people who wants a long-term romantic story. And more than most, to show that most stereotypes are very wrong!
Transsexual Love relationship and sexy dating
Tore-sum it up, on transsexualdateonline.com, you will find three pages (look at main menu navigation). Which define and help you to guess what transsexual woman you looking for based on what we explained till now. Then Asian ladyboy dating, and westerner transex dating that include Europe and America. Then the third page that merges all the ethnicity for those not looking for a romantic relationship with shemale dating.
While releasing our dating site reviews, we will also split them up into two different categories:
- Love relationship
- Sexy dating
In this way, we will give you even better how to find not just the right trans woman for you, but also the best dating site for you as well! That match your criteria, preferences and wishes.
There are so many important details that you must learn and bear in mind when dating transsexual women. That you are looking for a one night stand, or long-term relationship, it doesn’t matter, transsexual women are humans being just like you, but their unique condition determinate some crucial differences if you want to find the right partner for you.
What do you think about all that said? Just leave a comment on the box below and we will reply to all your questions and thoughts.
9 thoughts on “What transsexual partner are you looking for ?”
I love your comments , for thre first time I have read somthing that makes sense. I’ve always wanted to have a realationship with a transexual because I feel I can be happy, and make someone happy.However I have been too shy. ( I have felt forbidden). But I was wrong . There are so many trans girls that I can certainly make verry happy as a couple.I hope that I can meet the right person for me.
Glad to hear it helps! Yes, we are aware of the feelings you mentioned, and we administrators and partners are all men and trans women couples who are in relationship. It is very close to hour heart helping out you guys to find your happiness with who you like !
I wish you all the best for the future ! Thanks 🙂
This blog is simply great, when i look around for some topics related to transsexuals, shemale, ladyboys, it all about porn and escorts! Why am I so happy? Because my girlfriend is a TG, and we are together for about 4 years now, and she is also so upset when internet only show the dark side of transsexuals. She is a nurse, working in a well known hospital and never had business with sex work! She loves me because i respect and treat her as a woman, and i love her for how she is! A great woman! Just saying!
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i want a shemale for life partner, i want to marry with a shemle and beauty is not required. but her heart will
Hi All im noob here. Good art! Thx! Love your stories about trans women!
Want to meet shemale???
I have two marriges behind me and have since a long time now been more and more attracted to Shemale/transexuals as I find them more sensual than other girls.. I would love to meet one to build a relationship with from friend to lifetime love. For me it don’t matter if it is a pro op or a wish to make surgery or if she want to keep everthing she is born with, it is more the personality and sensuality I would love to find..
As english is far from my native language I don’t know if I can tell it better than this…
I would love to meet a shemale or trans women